I love this article by Sherri Hayden, Neuropsychologist, sharing her first hand experience with surfing and how ocean exposure can help regulate “fear and stress”, as well trigger “rest and restore” responses. Her story is one of personal transformation, transcending fear, building strength and pushing beyond self-limiting talk; how engaging in new experiences in well supported environments has been a catalyst, positively impacting her life. Her story represents what W.J. Nichols has coined BlueMind: “how our exposure to the ocean can make us happier, healthier, more connected and better at what we do.”
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Written By Sherri Hayden
Published in the Barnacle Babes ~ The Blue Healing Issue
My relationship with water has been a complicated one. Although my earliest memories are of joyful play in the water, fear experiences would subsequently present themselves in my life. The most memorable fear experience being a near-death drowning in the Old Man River of the Kananaskis, southwestern Alberta, when I was seventeen. Had my brother failed to pull me from those river rapids that moment would have been the end of my relationship with water. Luckily, the experience just left me with a debilitating fear of running/moving water that resulted in a degree of avoidance throughout much of my adult life.
Despite this trauma, I went on to pursue my vision of clinical practice as a neuropsychologist serving patients with dementia and traumatic brain injuries. I have felt honoured to share the journey for those facing end of life or with traumatic change to their brains. However, after twenty-five years of secondary exposure to the trauma of others, the weight of their suffering was taking its toll on my own health. This was compounded, around age fifty, with several personal stressors (i.e., a seriously ill child and sudden retirement of my husband), which served to demand more self-care be incorporated in my life.
Strangely, these crises brought me back to the moving water I feared so much from my past as I impulsively signed up for a women’s yoga and surf retreat with SwellWomen in Maui. This experience, which I had initiated to escape my life stress, actually served as exposure therapy (exposure to the source of anxiety/fear in a controlled context in order to help overcome the distress) for my fear of moving water. I emerged from the week with a greater sense of balance and bravery to face the stress I was returning to at home. Since then I have surfed various locations throughout North and Central America with many remarkable women from around the world who also are challenging their own limits in their own way.
My background in neuroscience subsequently brought me to explore our understanding of ocean exposure effects on our brains. For instance, studies suggest ocean sounds activate our prefrontal cortex (the most evolved and complex part of the brain and includes the center for regulation of our stress response). Ocean waves sounds have also been found to play a role in balancing serotonin levels and in reducing cortisol, both involved in regulating mood and stress response. This seems demonstrated in therapeutic surfing programs, such as those geared towards veterans with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. In my own experience, this ocean environment not only provided much needed exposure therapy for my fear of moving water but also engaged my prefrontal cortex to enhance regulation of my high levels of stress. With this framework, I can imagine the process of surfing provides opportunity for my prefrontal cortex to regulate both the “fight-flight” response with the surge of catching a wave or being tumbled by one, as well as the “rest and store” response, triggered by sitting on the board feeling and listening to the rhythm of waves between rides.